ENM

Texting & Internet Slang abbreviation · Dating and Relationship

ENM
Stands forEthical non-monogamy
CategoriesTexting & Internet Slang

ENM stands for Ethical non-monogamy, a dating and relationship abbreviation.

Umbrella term for relationship styles in which all partners knowingly agree to romantic or intimate connections with more than one person, such as polyamory or open relationships. Seen in dating-app profiles and relationship advice.

Example: Her profile says ENM, so she's upfront that she has a partner already.

Usage notes

"Ethical" or "consensual" non-monogamy (CNM) stresses honesty and consent, distinguishing it from cheating. Several dating apps let users list ENM as a relationship type. Discussions of ENM can include adult topics, so context and audience matter.

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